Healing from Trauma: What Trauma Therapy Involves
- Aisha Bettridge, Psychotherapist, BA (Hons), MA.

- Mar 1
- 4 min read
Updated: May 20
Wondering about how therapy can help with trauma? Therapy isn't just about talking the issues through, or just having some tools to manage; it's about healing on a profound level. The therapeutic process is a journey that can lead to significant emotional and psychological transformation. Trauma can impact how we think, feel, and relate to others in various ways, often leading to patterns of behaviour that may be detrimental to our well-being. It can create barriers in our relationships, distort our self-perception, and even affect our physical health. Here’s what trauma therapy can offer on your healing journey.

Understanding your triggers
Trauma therapy can help with a variety of crucial aspects related to healing and personal growth. One of the benefits is the opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of your triggers. Triggers are often linked to past traumatic experiences and can manifest in various ways, leading to emotional distress or physical reactions. Through trauma therapy, individuals can learn to identify these triggers, understand their origins, and develop strategies to cope with them effectively. This process is essential in creating a sense of safety and empowerment in daily life.
Processing past experiences safely
Additionally, trauma therapy provides a structured environment for processing past experiences safely. Many individuals carry the weight of unresolved trauma, which can hinder their ability to live fully in the present. Therapists trained and experienced in working with trauma utilise various therapeutic approaches to help clients process these memories in a way that feels safe and manageable. This may involve Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR), Rewind Trauma Therapy, Somatic Therapy, Trauma-informed Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Parts Work, and more. The safe processing of past experiences allows individuals to integrate their experiences without becoming overwhelmed by them.
Regulating emotions & body responses
Another significant aspect of trauma therapy is the emphasis on being with emotions and body responses. Trauma can disrupt the body’s natural ability to respond to stress, leading to heightened anxiety, depression, or physical symptoms. Therapists can support clients with the practice of grounding techniques, self-compassion, mindfulness practices, and emotional regulation strategies that can help individuals regain control over their emotional and physiological responses. Learning these skills, can help clients with an improved ability to navigate challenging situations.

Rebuilding trust & relationships
Rebuilding trust and relationships is a critical component of trauma therapy. Traumatic experiences can severely impact one’s ability to trust others and form healthy relationships. Therapy can provide a safe space to explore these issues, allowing individuals to understand how their trauma has affected their interpersonal dynamics. Through the therapeutic relationships, between therapist and client, clients can begin to rebuild trust, both in themselves and in others, facilitating healthier connections moving forward. This process often involves setting boundaries, improving communication skills, and developing a stronger sense of self-worth, which are essential for fostering fulfilling relationships.
More than just coping skills
Therapy isn’t just about “fixing” symptoms. It’s about so much more than merely addressing surface-level issues or alleviating immediate discomfort. It encompasses a holistic approach that prioritises feeling safe in your body again, which is crucial for anyone who has experienced trauma or emotional distress. This process involves learning to reconnect with your physical self, understanding the signals your body sends, and cultivating a sense of safety that allows you to express your feelings and experiences without fear.
Cultivating self-compassion
Moreover, therapy is about understanding your story with compassion. Each individual has a unique narrative shaped by their experiences, struggles, and triumphs. In therapy, you are encouraged to explore this narrative without judgement, allowing you to gain insights into how your past influences your present. By reframing your story through a compassionate lens, you can begin to see yourself not just as a collection of problems but as a whole person with strengths and vulnerabilities. This compassionate understanding can be transformative, leading to greater self-acceptance and healing.

Each person's therapy journey is unique, shaped by their distinct experiences, backgrounds, and challenges. Individuals bring a complex mix of emotions, thoughts, and life experiences to therapy, requiring diverse approaches and outcomes. Factors like cultural background, personal history, and coping mechanisms influence therapy engagement and goals, which can range from addressing mental health issues to seeking personal growth.
Ultimately, trauma therapy focuses on long-term healing. It isn't a quick fix for immediate issues but rather a path toward acquiring the skills and tools needed to handle life's challenges successfully. For trauma therapy to be effective, it must progress at a pace that suits you, and finding the right therapist with whom you feel comfortable is crucial for this journey. Trauma therapy is a journey of self-exploration and development that can result in many significant and positive changes and a more connected and fulfilling life.
Disclaimer: Information and opinions in this blog do not constitute as therapy or personalised professional advice. If you feel that you would like personalised support from a qualified Psychotherapist you are welcome to book a free introductory call with me or search for a therapist on online directories such as the Counselling Directory or Psychology Today .
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